Unfriendly Asian American Parents

Tweet   Shanghai Meimi wrote: Do Asian-American parents ever befriend their kids’ friends? I hang out with the families of my friends of all different backgrounds, and I’ve found older Mainland Chinese to be so hospitable, but my A-A friends’ parents are so aloof and sometimes quite rude. I think [...]

Many SAMs are Late Bloomers

Tweet Reading a comment by zhangxiaoxiong in the The Fear of Rejection article, he made a great point that I wanted to expand on. A lot of us SAMs are Late Bloomers. The problem with this is that by the time you’ve decided to try dating, you have the adult, [...]

Your Parents Raised You to be Single, SAM

Tweet SAMs are frustrated, and I know a lot of you want to blame girls  and American culture for your frustrations.  But, before you do, blame your parents and Asian culture.  “What?!!”, you ask?  Let me explain. The way we are raised as Asians, we tend to give respect and [...]