These guys are pussies. Personally, I think that hanging out with other SAMs all the time is a stagnant situation, especially if they are the downers. You know, the guys who aren’t up for doing anything new, and are afraid to take chances. If you’re in a situation like that, GET OUT!!! It really does make a difference. I have a buddy who was in a downer group, but changed his ways, and now runs with a few guys who go to bars to meet people. He’s transformed from a nice, pathetic SAM to one with game in like 3 months!! It’s amazing! He’s dating two women, and he hasn’t looked back. True story guys. It’s the company you keep.
But, let me get back to the subject. I’m talking about the SAM who says he has your back, who is a sworn blood brother, and who swears his allegience to SAMdom. He hangs out with you every night, and talks about the ‘value of friendship’. Then, one day, he gets a girlfriend, and he suddenly disappears from the face of the earth. This kind of hypocrisy is fucked up. I can’t stand it. And, if he ends up breaking up with the girl, he comes back to the group like he has committed no wrongs, and starts talking about ‘friendship’ again. Fucking pathetic. If you know a guy like this, realize that he isn’t hanging out with you guys because of ‘friendship’. It’s because he is just lonely, and can’t stand being alone. That’s why when he gets a girl, he doesn’t need you anymore, and he goes off and ignores you because he’s got the companionship now. Makes sense, right?
I say these guys should be held accountable for their actions. It’s fucking lame-ass. There’s a balance that needs to be maintained, and an honor code amongst SAMs. If you go out and find a girl, don’t leave your SAM buddies in the dust. Meet up with them sometimes, and help them get a date. Share what you’ve learned from your relationship to make them better. Don’t be selfish. It’s your duty as a former SAM to help your buddy SAM. It’s the right thing to do. Learn to keep the balance of having a girl and friends. It’ll make you a well-balanced, genuine person.