Man, it’s crazy. I see a bunch of my SAM friends sitting around talking about girls, and they say ‘Man, she’s hot!’ or ‘I wanna ask her on a date’, etc.. But, meanwhile, these stallions have issues with their personality, they wear white-washed jeans, they are as sexy as a Gilbert Godfried, they have no confidence, etc…My point is simply that if you think she’s ‘hot’, then YOU better be ‘hot’. If she’s ‘interesting’, YOU better be ‘interesting’. If she’s sexy, YOU better be. If she has a great body, YOU better be fit, too. So, ask yourself what you have to offer her. What is it about YOU that is so special? Why would she pick YOU above all the other guys who are black, white, or Asian? Guys hate it when girls say ‘accept me for who I am’, so you better not play that pathetic game, either. Work on improving yourself. As a super shy introvert, I’ve always worked hard on my expression, and it’s something you can improve. The first step is to take inventory of what you have and don’t have, and start developing your skills.
Now, don’t get all superficial and think that it’s all about the bling blang, or the clothes, or your car. It matters to a degree, but keep it simple. Just dress nice, and smell nice. Stay clean. If you start acting superficial and getting these expensive toys, you’re gonna just attract superficial girls. (<- I notice this trend with Korean and Chinese people…) The girls with the great personalities and smiles don’t fall for that stupid shit. I’m with a great, beautiful girl, both internally and externally, and I’m just average looking…(though I’m stylin’). The only reason I can think of for why she is with me is because of my personality. I’m no longer shy, I make her laugh, I’m responsible, I’m clean, I’m fit, I’m fun and well-rounded, and I aggressively pursued her. Sounds like a lot but it really isn’t. These are the basics, man!
The most important thing is your attitude and sex appeal. Stop treating the girl like she’s a man. Break the boundaries. Stop being just a friend. Show that you are interested in her. Be fun and spontaneous and rude. Act like a rock star.
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