I noticed a lot of SAMs tend to leave their sexuality ‘switch’ off until they find somebody they like. Then, when they try to turn it on, there is a malfunction. It’s kind of like sports teams. Lots of lazy former-championship teams think that they can suddenly turn on their abilities when they need it, but usually they can’t. (The Pistons this year were a good example of this.) The teams that win are the ones that play hard every night all season long; they develop a habit of winning, and they use the momentum. Sexuality is similar: if you leave it OFF, then you won’t be able to turn it ON when you need it. I think a lot of SAMs tend to leave their sexuality switches OFF. They are really nice at work, PC all the time, they are polite at restaurants, sit cross-legged at cafes, and they are asexual in front of girls they aren’t interested in. For some reason, I think a lot of Asian guys were taught to leave the switch off, due to maybe feeling embarrassed about sexuality, or being taught to be nice and unexpressive.
You’re a MAN! Start acting like one! Flaunt it, show it, and exercise it: ALL THE TIME! The best time to act like a man is with girls you’re NOT attracted to since you aren’t nervous and you don’t care. Flirt even if you don’t like the girl. Compliment the girl at the register, and make her feel like a woman. Act brash and crass with the waitress. Talk about sex or relationships with your female co-workers. Be aware that you are a MAN, and always make sure you’re acting like one. Remember that you are also a representative of SAMs, so show your best all the time, guys. Even if you are in a relationship with a girl, don’t stop your mojo from flowing when speaking with other women. Sexuality is a like a muscle, and you have to use it to keep it strong.
If you do this, people will take notice, and you will naturally attract more women, even if you aren’t consciously trying. Other guys, including whites and blacks, will respect you more and treat you as an equal. You will improve the SAM image. And, when you finally do meet someone you want to impress, the pheromones will be flowing, your game will be razor sharp, and you won’t choke. Your switch will be on already, and you can just act like you normally do.
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