Somebody on the radio once said that women know if they’re going to sleep with you in the first 10 minutes of meeting you. For some SAMs, it’s more like 32 years because they still haven’t got laid yet by that girl. The point is this: I learned late in life that the “friend” label is the death of any potential of getting any sort of tail from the chick. Remember this! If you’re just a friend, you’re not getting any. She thinks of you as a brother. Or in the case of SAMs, possibly a sister. You see, the “friend” is the one that gets to listen to all the complaints by the girl of how her BOYFRIEND is a jerk and insensitive. And you’re the schmuck who sits there and listens to her crying and have the need to cheer her up. But as soon as she gets the phone call and it’s her asshole boyfriend, she has to go because she’s going over to his house and get laid by him for the next 2 hours. Don’t be that friend! I noticed many SAMs who are just that though. Get out while you can. There’s nothing in there for you. The girl is just using you to get emotional support and attention, things that she’s not getting from her asshole boyfriend. Who gets to schtoop her? Not you SAM, he does! Not you you pathetic fool! You’re the guy who fixes her computer. You’re the guy who pays for her coffee. You’re the guy that gets to bail her out when she’s in trouble. I’ve been there, I know. I was that “friend”. Yes, you want her in your life, even though you’re just the friend. Screw that! You’re wasting your time. You could be out there trying to get laid instead of being at her beckon call. Don’t be that friend. Two things that are certain in life: death and taxes. Well, somebody forgot one more – “friend” don’t get ass or tail
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This is a trap statement. If you get into the friend category, you can always get out. Girls instantly know if they are attracted to you physically, but girls are also quite stupid. You can always crawl out of the basement of friendship to more grand heights. The key is not to treat her as a friend. Guys tend to get labeled as “friends” and they act accordingly. They treat the girl like some porcelain doll, who they coddle and care for. Girls tend to get comfortable with this situation and try not to destroy it by becoming more intimate. They value you as a “friend” and don’t want to lose you by creating a relationship. The key is, you as a “friend” need to let her know, that this is not what you want. That she will lose your friendship, but she can create something more significant with you. Guys are equally responsible for being labeled as a “friend.” If you get labeled as a friend, don’t allow yourself to treat her like a friend.