She said that I was just a friend!

Tweet  Somebody on the radio once said that women know if they’re going to sleep with you in the first 10 minutes of meeting you. For some SAMs, it’s more like 32 years because they still haven’t got laid yet by that girl. The point is this: I learned late [...]

Koreans can be racist

Tweet  I’m sorry but I have to be forthcoming about this – some Koreans can be racist. Especially our parents’ generation. You see, most of them want their son to marry within – meaning, a Korean chick. Some don’t care though and there’s plenty of Korean guys who have married [...]

Being “Too” Sensitive

Tweet What’s up with SAMs being overly sensitive when it comes to women (or maybe men if you swing that way?)  SAMs develop a psycho like attachment to one girl (most likely asian) and when they get rejected, they fall to pieces…they can’t work, they don’t socialize, and more importantly [...]

Street Cred

Tweet   You see, I learned late in life that when you have street cred, you attract attention. Women are mystified by men who have street cred. Women think “he’s mysterious, I wonder what he’s thinking…” When you have street cred, people think you’re a ‘bad boy’. SAMs need to [...]

SAMs & LAN Parties

Tweet   Fellow SAMs, please stop with the LAN parties. Seriously. For those of you who don’t know, a LAN party is when you link up to 4 Xbox’s and play Halo with 16 other dudes. That’s right…16 oriental sausages under one roof, yelling and screaming at each other, “You shot [...]

SAM Personals – All the wrong moves…

Tweet So, I googled ‘Single Asian Male’, and I found these two postings on craigslist.  Check it out:   Single asian male seeking a lady – 33 (berkeley) Im a 33 yo single asian male looking for some one to meet for a discrete no strings attached relationship. We can [...]

Voice Your Opinion SAMs!

Tweet Hello and thanks for coming to our site!  We hope our articles give you insight into Single Asian Male issues, as well as Asian American issues in general.  Our intent is to write from different perspectives, and to write with raw emotion, raw language, honesty, and humor.  Some of [...]

Your Parents Raised You to be Single, SAM

Tweet SAMs are frustrated, and I know a lot of you want to blame girls  and American culture for your frustrations.  But, before you do, blame your parents and Asian culture.  “What?!!”, you ask?  Let me explain. The way we are raised as Asians, we tend to give respect and [...]